Choosing to work in the days between Christmas and New Years was definitely a terrible idea. I was lured in by the possibility of those days being quiet work days but I forgot how much more relaxing an actual vacation would be during this time with no “oh fuck that project is waiting for my response” anxiety hanging over my head.
I am not sure when procrastinating at work became a default for me but that’s definitely one of the big things I am looking to change in 2022. This is one of those ‘big impact’ changes because procrastination is such a terrible choice for anxious people like myself. It’s not like we enjoy the time we spend wasting because we are just sitting there worrying about the work (but at the same time not being able to work because we are too anxious).
I look back at my old posts and I was so hyped to get a good internship while in university. Now look at me – a professional engineer with a job I actually like (atleast the concept of the work we do, if not the actual doing of said work). It’s sad that I am wasting away this opportunity by bringing in the most mediocre of effort. Sure, one shouldn’t stress oneself by trying to be the best at everything because there are so many things that are not in our control. But I feel like I have started to lean too much into that and I am not even putting in the effort to change things that are within my control.
Too bad becoming a trophy wife who just stays at home is not an option in this economy…..